1. Love isn't really about your feelings, it's about the other person's feelings.
2. Some days love isn't even a feeling at all; It's a decision you make.
3. Pick your battles. Lose as often as you can stand it. Only fight for things you can't live without. In the end everyone wins this way. There is a lot of joy in letting the one you love have things their way.
4. Keep quiet when you're angry because mean things can't be unsaid. It's way easier to forgive than it is to forget.
5. Always say your sorry, because even when you're right you should be sorry that you fought.
6. Don't wait until you make up to be affectionate or make love-- let your physical connection carry you when words just don't help.
I know they aren't everything, but I'm really counting on them to get me through. So far so good...
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